If I can give you 1 precious gem, this would be it.
Did you know …
…That everything you do is the result of the questions you ask yourself everyday?
Every moment of everyday, we ask ourselves questions. We don’t consciously realize it, but that is a fact. We act following the answers we give to THOSE questions. Questions are a very powerful concept and they shape every area of our lives! Like Tony Robbins said “ask lousy questions, get lousy answers”.
We all have questions programmed in our subconscious minds. How did they get there? Who knows! It could be something someone had told us way in the past and we accepted it as truth.
Here are some examples of disempowering questions we often ask ourselves: “why does this always happens to me?” or “why am I such a loser?” Or “why am I unlucky ? “. Sounds familiar?? OUCH! Can you imagine the consequences of asking those kinds of questions over and over everyday of your life? Imagine the hit you take with questions like that? No wonder our confidence level is often so low and our actions are boring and mediocre.
WHAT IT DID FOR ME…
I have found The best question to live MY LIFE by and it has changed me in ways I cannot describe. I am not suggesting that this question is the ultimate question for everyone! If you have a better one, by all means, use it!
For me, It has made me a better person, a more feminine confident woman, a person who truly loves herself and someone I am proud to be. This to me, is priceless. I am not saying that I don’t have some rough days, we all do. But it’s much easier to get off a bad vibe when you know what you’re capable of. Believe me.
I have more time to be grateful and happy now. I rarely spend any time victimizing myself or hate on me like I use to. I have NO TIME TO WASTE IN BAD ENERGY! Now, my off days have a purpose: I use them to get back up stronger than before. I win every time!
Sometimes, our childhood or our relationships don’t provide us with the love and support we need. It is our duty to find the attention, validation, acceptance, support and love within ourselves. No one can save us except ourselves. Why should we love ourselves so much? Because God (or the universe depending on your beliefs) created us. God chose us. God Loves Each and Everyone of Us unconditionally! So how can I not be filled with love?? What this Question has done for me in my life was to shape very action i take and every emotion I feel. I had never imagined such a turnover was even possible for me in my life. I was always out of control. I never thought my life could take such a wonderful inner spin!
PROGRAMMING YOUR NEW QUESTION;
Ready to know what that question is? Before I tell you, I just want you to know that for this question to become a part of your subconscious mind, you must program it there for it to really shape your life. It’s very easy to do.
For the next few weeks, when you wake up, I want your to repeat the question a few dozen times. Out loud. And then i want you to put a reminder on your phone to redo this exercise throughout the day at least once. After a few weeks, you will be amazed.
What is your Question?
AND FINALLY…THE ONE WE HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR…… DRUMROLL PLEASE….
The question is:
” WHAT WOULD MY BEST SELF DO OR SAY TO KEEP WINNING AT THIS MOMENT?”
Those question has very suttle assumptions hidden in there: it supposes that you are already winning and that you do have a choice to act as your highest potential self would. Simple isn’t it? Simple but yet so powerful! What is your potential self? Only you know!
Another Fun homework
I want you to close your eyes and imagine YOUSELF as your best possible self . In other words, picture yourself as if you mastered every area of your life and would be at your peak performance. From finances to the best possible relationship, physical body, health, emotional states … Picture it vividly. What would it look like? What would it feel like? Close your eyes and see yourself full of confidence, full in control of your life and living your wildlest dreams. Close your eyes and see how you would walk, talk, deal with certain situation, what your income would be, what car you would be driving. Imagine you being the best you can be. NOW COME A LITTLE CLOSER I WANNA TELL YOU A SECRET…. A LITTLE CLOSER.. YES… ALL YOU IMAGINED IS ALL POSSIBLE.. From today on, start believing that its all possible…
After programming this new question in your subconscious, you will start to make radical changes in the way you act. You will see how automatically you will start to act superior than you use to. Higher standards are the name of the game. You will start to make your imagination the reality you live in. Believe me, it works! It will change the way you eat, the way you spend your time, the way you act, the way you dress up, the way you talk to yourself, the way you imagine your future, the way you treat others…. ahhhhh you wouldn’t believe the beauty and the power behind this little question
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‘’ Never ever fear. Never ever stop. Never ever be forgotten. Be Bold. Be Fearless. Be Unstoppable. Be unreasonable. Be Real. Be you.’’ -Nadia Farag